You sound like meeting girls is your priority. Lucky.
Whichever neighborhood you decide to live in, you'll meet tons of em. Don't pick the place based on meeting girls, you do that going out. Pick a place that you'll feel good about coming home to. Have you been out on your own on the island or with family? Long Island and the hoods you're looking at are completely different animals. You have to go out on the Island to meet girls, and while you may meet chicks through building friends, sometimes its just not worth it. So in that regards, its the same. Just that in Brooklyn when you go out, there'll be tons of them, and great variety, whereas on Long Island they're mostly the same.
I hope once you move you post a follow up thread, so I can have someone else to live vicariously through. (Married and two kids) It helps.
Wow...agree with that^^ 100%
Will do. Can straight home today. Rain made me wanna be inside...