Ok, there is something stressing me out about this online dating thing that I think has made me be very passive about it. What if you hang with a woman and you have a fine time, you agree to see her again, have a fine time, and then she is really into you despite you being whatever about her? She keeps texting trying to hang and is being aggressive as far as her interest in you, but you're just not feeling it. This situation (which occurred once way back) puts a lot of stress on me. I am stressed out enough just being alive and having to have a conversation about your feelings about the future of the relationship a date or two in is utterly daunting to me. Frankly, I'd rather go to the dentist. Are you supposed to have these conversations so early, or can you just be busy and let it fizzle out? Am I just being a coward?