So there's one guy in particular I have to work with who I just despise for many reasons. Anyway, I know for a while he's been upset about a few things at work and feels left out (well if you paid attention in meetings...) blah blah blah. So I sent him an email on Monday and said when I get back in the office I'll take you to lunch on Thursday or we'll do something (he's obliquely mentioned wanting to do that before) just pick a place. Well I ate a sub because I never heard anything from him.
I really didn't want to go to lunch with him at all and I'm actually somehow more pissed off that he didn't even respond. Like, I don't even really think cordiality is achievable, at best just a feeling of detente. But fuck man, like to not even say anything just... ugh. I guess it's because he's upset about shit that's the result of his own doing and someone tries