Originally Posted by edinatlanta
Will post when not on my phone
I don't want to post too much about what happened but I would also be shocked if there were any overlap between that side of the family and SF.
So my cousin got engaged and while we're not very close I did get a bad feeling about this. The more details leaked out the more it was...eh. Turns out the bride-to-be was not terribly interested in, you know, super unimportant things like setting a date (The save the date was "May or June"). There were many more things that I wasn't totally privy to and don't feel like rehashing but in hindsight, it appears it was never going to work.
No one really wanted to press for too much info but late Friday night they talked, there were red flags from her this week and that was kind of the straw the broke the camel's back. On Saturday night, the bride (or rather her proxies) began a super petty campaign against my cousin and his family so that's not going to help things. Apparently though, my cousin and the girl were going to talk Sunday night and I really have no idea nor terribly care what happened.
Without getting too much into the details--the crazy part about the weekend was that the canceled weekend was merely the first element of a roller coaster ride. And the canceled nuptials were not the worst wedding-related disaster in this generation of the family, so....