So back to, "Are you one of THOSE husbands?"
Here's my answer to that:
I'm married to the person I love most in the world. Why would I want to bust the chops of the person I love most in the world over small stuff like a third coffee maker that will gather dust? It's not a financial stress on us, sure would not be to Larry Baller and Mrs. Larry Even Bigger Baller, so outside of a momentary internal head shake where's the damage? Don't bust the chops of the person you spend your life with over small stuff and 99.9% of all stuff is small stuff.
One of Those Husbands (the happy and well adjusted ones that is)