posted this in the 'making you happy' threak by mistake... that's pissing me off!
in almost every family there is this one person that's a black hole that sucks everything that's good, positive and that brings happiness; and manipulates it into a self-centered, twisted, corrupted heap of crap which he/she revels in and thinks that everyone should be sympathetic to his/her convoluted way of thinking, and then if you yourself get sucked in he/she will try to turn you into something like him/her- a pathetic shell of a human being devoid of genuine love and care except for one's self. an emotional parasite, that leaves a toxic atmosphere everywhere he/she spews his vitriol and negativity. and then they are in constant denial on why everyone around avoid him/her, making himself/herself believe that everyone else in the world except him/her are fucked up and beneath him/her. I wish I wasn't around these people in my family so much. they are sucking the life out of me.