one of my wife's old best friends from israel is visiting chicago soon, and is driving us crazy. 6 months ago, she says she's coming. we say, great, give us dates so that we can plan. we ask a dozen times for specific dates. so my wife sends an email saying we are really really busy, and would love to see them, can they tell us what they would like to do and when, so that we can plan. no answer. we send this maybe 5 times. then, we say ok, so lets have dinner on this date, what do you want to eat? no specific answer, just some humming and hawing. so we make suggestions, and they come back and tell us whey each type of food wouldn't work for them. then they tell us that we will go out to eat with them, and another couple that is the husbands old friend. so we haven't seen them in 5 years, and we are going to "catch up" over 2 hours with another couple there, too. and, they want to go do this at a blues club, where we won't be able to talk over the music. I don't give a fuck, but it is driving my wife crazy, and so she is unhappy its driving me crazy. I hate indecisive people.