Buy a bottle of lemon juice. On dry hair, take a spoonfull of lemon juice and rub hands together, then work the lemon juice into your hair. Let dry 5-10 min. Then work your fingers through your hair to style. At first your hair will feel hard but it will loosen somewhat. The lemon juice will work like a hair spray or gel. It can also lighten your hair. It is natural and will easily wash out later. Practice this until you get the hang of it.
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