Basketball and weight lifting for years. 33-34" waist and 24" thighs. Buy for your ass and thighs, have the waist taken in. JCrew Classic cut will work, but they do suffer from a bit of diaper ass. Black fleece (BB3 works for me, take the waist in)...wait for online sales.
Get epaulets if you can tolerate less pants. Save up for the nicer stuff...you'll wear it more, for longer and like it.