That's using your noodle
If you are not looking for a wife, you should look at getting laid just like buying shoes: Do you want to go and sift through the thrift store for $10 pair of scuffed shoes that would probably give you athletes foot, or would you rather pick up the phone and get a nice pair of custom made beautiful shoes that would make you feel like you are floating on air?!?
P.S. you can even get "made in China" without feeling guilty
My father once said "I'll kill you if I ever catch you paying for sex. It's too easy to get it for free." I think that mentality is more often than not what it takes.