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GBR 
If you don't like receiving advice do not use public web boards to try to get you out of your mistakes.
Man of Lint proffers very sound advice, accept it in some humility.
I have no problem receiving advice. In fact, as should be abundantly evident from my initial post, I came here specifically seeking advice. I'm not sure how people are getting the impression I've run here seeking to "undo" some mistake I've made. The use of polish has far from "ruined" the gloves; they look antiqued, and actually have quite a nice patina to them. Still not the colour I was expecting to receive given the description I was given. But still far from ruined. Not to mention - they still keep my hands warm.
I came looking for advice on the best way to proceed from where I am now to the objective I'm aiming for. Man of Lint didn't proffer any very sound advice in his initial response. Indeed, his whole comment consisted of a single word: "dumb". How is that helpful? Or, for that matter, how is that advice? Admittedly, his second post was *somewhat* more helpful, though his tone was characteristically dickish as always.
While there is no doubt that styleforum has always had a strain of prickliness about it (at least in the 3 years I've been lurking about), but I've noticed an increasing number of posters around here who engage in unhelpful, rude, and condescending discourse with those seeking genuine advice. Internet anonymity is no excuse for being a pratt or abandoning common courtesy. People generally don't act this way in real life as there are consequences; there's always a chance the person you snub your nose at could decide that nose would look better if it was inverted. There's no threat on the internet, and so, seemingly, the social contract breaks down. I'm tired of it. There are other ways to work through your lingering teenage angst than in what should be a space for helpful discussion. So I called out Man of Lint exactly how I would have if I'd asked him in person and he'd given the same useless, rude response. He was being an asshole. So he got like in return.
I dare say it is rather odd that you would suggest I take his advice with humility, when he offered it with none.