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post #31 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:01am
youre life is full of fails with women.....reading between the lines, methinks you may be the kind of fella who moves too fast. not in terms of getting their fuck on, but in terms of making them your girlfriend. just my 2 centavos. also, you like penor. just had to throw that in there. satisfied.gif
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post #32 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:02am
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If Conne was in the Friend Zone, he wouldn't have gotten as far as he did. I'm willing to bet that this girl slept with the other guy really quickly and is trying to justify it to herself (and everybody else) by saying that they're in "kind of" a relationship. In other words, this guy is a few steps ahead of Conne, nothing that can't be overcome. I'm a little biased, but I think texting is a minimal investment worth making. Worst thing that happens is that she doesn't respond and you can move on knowing that you gave it a shot.

He didn't get anywhere. He was in bed with her in clothes. That's classic friend-zone because she felt safe enough to be there with him and he wouldn't try anything.

It might be a minimal investment for you but look at what this is doing to him, he's fretting about it like it's a major life decision. She will respond to his text, (not for sex but just to continue the friendship) and he'll wind up obsessing about every little text that they exchange, trying to read it for clues about her real feelings. He'll continue to throw money at her in an attempt to woo her away from her real boyfriend who just got out of prison and has devil horns tattooed on his forehead. Nothing good will come of him continuing to try to sex her. He needs to abandon ship and go after something else.
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post #33 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:05am
Conne, if she really wanted to fuck you, she would have.

Just sayin'
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post #34 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:06am
Conne, you need to text her that you're coming over and do not expect to have to leave before you dip your wick. If she won't let you come over, or does not return your text, she has her knees to her shoulders and is screaming that other guy's name.
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post #35 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:06am
there is no shame in your prepping for the bull, it's your pre-ordained role
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post #36 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:06am
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Conne, if she really wanted to fuck you, she would have.
Just sayin'

spot on. SHE DIDNT.
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post #37 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:06am
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there is no shame in your prepping for the bull, it's your pre-ordained role

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/win
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post #38 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:14am
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there is no shame in your prepping for the bull, it's your pre-ordained role

You're really big on this whole cuck/bull thing. Did I miss a post about you being a swinger?
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post #39 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:21am

This hilarious.  Proud Mary indeed.

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post #40 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:48am
So no one besides me has faith in Young Master Connemara?

Conne, you need to push your chips to the middle of the table and go all in. "Listen, I understand that you're kind of in a relationship and confused, and I respect that. I also know that we have an incredible connection, and I think the feeling is mutual. I would regret it forever if we didn't pursue this and see where it led. Meet me tonight."
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post #41 of 774
10/20/11 at 10:59am
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So no one besides me has faith in Young Master Connemara?
Conne, you need to push your chips to the middle of the table and go all in. "Listen, I understand that you're kind of in a relationship and confused, and I respect that. I also know that we have an incredible connection, and I think the feeling is mutual. I would regret it forever if we didn't pursue this and see where it led. Meet me tonight."

No. No. No. No.

Sechs first, talk afterwards, never anything emotional, ever. Golden rule in iffy situations. Otherwise there is a risk of her actually starting to think about stuff, and then she acts on those thoughts, and that always goes wrong.

The simple solution is to use subtle emotional blackmail on these girls. They can dish it out but they can't take it.
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post #42 of 774
10/20/11 at 11:10am
Conne got "Conne'd" again. What's new here?

The situation sucks and it does seem to happen to him often, but the boy doesn't do himself any favors.

You knew about the other dude, either you back off immediately or go in guns blazing. This middle of the road crap gets you stuck with us on SF rather than pounding a 30-something silly during all hours of the night.
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post #43 of 774
10/20/11 at 11:10am
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So no one besides me has faith in Young Master Connemara?"

nope. he'll be latched on to some other girl whos "kinda taken" next week. cest la vie
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post #44 of 774
10/20/11 at 11:12am
23 to 30 is a pretty large gap. I'm not sure any self-respecting (perhaps that's the key) 30 y/o is dating a 23 y/o.

7 years not such a big deal when you're over 30, but she does make a good point re: age gap.
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post #45 of 774
10/20/11 at 11:13am
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Originally Posted by harvey_birdman View Post

He didn't get anywhere. He was in bed with her in clothes. That's classic friend-zone because she felt safe enough to be there with him and he wouldn't try anything.
It might be a minimal investment for you but look at what this is doing to him, he's fretting about it like it's a major life decision. She will respond to his text, (not for sex but just to continue the friendship) and he'll wind up obsessing about every little text that they exchange, trying to read it for clues about her real feelings. He'll continue to throw money at her in an attempt to woo her away from her real boyfriend who just got out of prison and has devil horns tattooed on his forehead. Nothing good will come of him continuing to try to sex her. He needs to abandon ship and go after something else.

Gold.
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