Originally Posted by Ambulance Chaser
So no one besides me has faith in Young Master Connemara?
Conne, you need to push your chips to the middle of the table and go all in. "Listen, I understand that you're kind of in a relationship and confused, and I respect that. I also know that we have an incredible connection, and I think the feeling is mutual. I would regret it forever if we didn't pursue this and see where it led. Meet me tonight."
No. No. No. No.
Sechs first, talk afterwards, never anything emotional, ever. Golden rule in iffy situations. Otherwise there is a risk of her actually starting to think about stuff, and then she acts on those thoughts, and that always goes wrong.
The simple solution is to use subtle emotional blackmail on these girls. They can dish it out but they can't take it.