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post #166 of 868
You better come home with clean pipes, or at the least, 2 stinky fingers.
post #167 of 868
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Originally Posted by Connemara View Post

Update: I saw her in my building this morning. She said she wants to do dinner tomorrow night instead but asked me to come over for a movie tonight. So I think I'm going to do that.

She owns you.

At least get what you want out of it.
post #168 of 868
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She wants it!!! My kawk!!!!
post #169 of 868
So give it to her already!
post #170 of 868
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Well, it's done. It's over.

I went over for the movie. Her roommate and roommate's boyfriend joined us. We sat close to each other on the couch, she rested her head on my shoulder a few times. Lots of wine, everyone was feeling good. The roommate/BF left and we were alone, chatting and then making out. At one point she kind of pulled away and said, "I was hoping we could be friends."

I said, too nicely in retrospect, that I don't think I can do that. She brought up our planned dinner for tomorrow night and I am going to call it off. I think something along the lines of, "I don't think this is a good idea. I like you, and I can't just be your friend."

How should I say it? I want to be subtly mean.

I am over her. Now that I think about it she is a terrible person.
post #171 of 868
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Originally Posted by Connemara View Post

I want to be subtly mean.

Can someone explain this concept to me please? I has confuze.
post #172 of 868
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How should I say it? I want to be subtly mean.

"I can't make it, $90 is just too much"
post #173 of 868
It's interesting that you got out of the friend zone with multiple makeouts, and then got put back in.

Time to pull back. I would call off dinner.

It's clear she's not over the other guy. I would stay friends with her, b/c she might lead you to some of he friends. Don't burn this bridge, she's just not over the guy she's still seeing.
post #174 of 868
"Blow job first, Dinner after"
or
"You're thirty right? How come a woman so close to her expiration date (some would say 'over') doesn't know what she wants?"
or when she walks in:
"High five!... Low Five!... Butt sechs!"

On as different, but also serious note: this woman isn't your friend. So whatever you do/say to her, you won't lose one. Kindness is its own reward though.

Denomination of reward -not sex, at least in this case.
post #175 of 868
i hope after this debacle you finally listen to the free sage-old advice to the peeps on sf!!
post #176 of 868
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Originally Posted by Connemara View Post

"I was hoping we could be friends."

Nobody saw that one coming.
post #177 of 868
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Originally Posted by CDFS View Post

"Blow job first, Dinner after"
or
"You're thirty right? How come a woman so close to her expiration date (some would say 'over') doesn't know what she wants?"
or when she walks in:
"High five!... Low Five!... Butt sechs!"
On as different, but also serious note: this woman isn't your friend. So whatever you do/say to her, you won't lose one. Kindness is its own reward though.
Denomination of reward -not sex, at least in this case.

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post #178 of 868

This man will change your life.

Plenty of stuff about older women as well, this is the one of the funniest stories though.
post #179 of 868
Somewhat funny story in the youtube vid, but his sneaky method of splitting the bill without telling the women up front isn't really the way I'd approach it. If you want to split the check why not just say it up front clearly rather than trying to make someone look like a fool?
post #180 of 868
A woman with priorities like that is basically a prostitute - "I'm giving up sex so I can have what every I want". Sounds so shallow and materialistic, was using the guy to an extent, there is no way she would have order $350 of drinks if she new she was paying - she was using the date as an excuse, acting like it was her right.
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