Hello!
I find that as I get older (I'm now 33), I get invited to black tie events much more often. And since I'm getting married in just under 2 months, it's time to buy a tuxedo that I can wear for the wedding and thereafter. I'm interested in an extremely classic look. Peak lapels, single button, grosgrain facings, besom and double besom pockets, a low-slung, backless waistcoat, ventless jacket, etc.
I live in New York City, am 6'2", 195, athletic, and wear a 41" jacket. I had imagined getting a tuxedo made to order, but am balking a bit at the price and so I went yesterday to check out My.SuitNY, which does made to measure ($500 or $800), and Jos. A. Bank, because they are having a sale on all of their tuxedo separates and a jacket + pants will run less than $200. I also have a Hugo Boss suit that fits me very well and I've looked at their tuxedos (~900), which don't fit as well. Finally, I've emailed Martin Greenfield and they said they can work with my time frame and that a 3 piece tux will run about $1800.
The problem with My.Suit, Jos. A. Bank and Hugo boss is that none of them do a low-slung (sort of U-shaped) waistcoat. Some of them do a vest or a cummerbund, but not the waistcoat. Anyone have thoughts on cummerbund vs. vest vs. waistcoat that they want to share?
My other question is about made to measure vs. taking an off the rack suit to a good tailor. Given that I was a fat kid and an athletic adult, my measurements did not fit a "blank" tuxedo at My.SuitNY and so they would basically taking their closest, standard American fitted suit and heavily altering it for me. In that case, I'm not sure why I wouldn't just buy the Jos. A. Bank tux that fits best across my chest and take it to a good tailor in the city. Can anyone share their thoughts with me on what the real difference is between made to measure vs. tailoring an off the rack suit? What really are the advantages of MTM? Separately, does anyone recommend a tailor that could heavily alter a tuxedo for me? My buddy has a guy in New Haven, but that's just a hike.
And if anyone wants to weigh in and say the Martin Greenfield tuxedo is going to be so dramatically better that I should really just suck up the cost. Again, I'm going to wear the tux about 4x/year. I'm conscious of the huge price difference but it's not going to break the bank to have a top notch tuxedo made for me.
Finally, I also looked at Mr. Ned's but recent reviews have been subpar. Any other suggestions under $2k are also welcome.
Thanks!




