I'm Jim, 41, m, Chicago, single (I like girls too much to be tied to only one - and I don't care how great she is, you're gonna get sick of her)
Fashion is SUPER ULTRA MEGA important if you like picking up chicks - they notice your shoes, believe me, NEVER cheat on the shoes. ...or the sunglasses for that matter, they're on your FACE!! I just picked up a pair of Chad 2's from Selima Optique, the same ones Ryan Gosling wore in Crazy Stupid Love. I haven't yet decided if they fit my melon head or not so I may wish to dump them if anyone's interested. Look them up, tortise shell wayfarer frame with gradient lenses - super bad, $385 USD retail if you can find them.
I put effort in to having no digital footprint - I don't have a faceplant or tweeter or instantgram accounts, I just don't consider myself that important and I don't need cyber friends. I'll never speak like an idiot by using phrases like 'hit me up' - your grammar is just as, if not more, important than your clothing. ...as is your posture. If you're going to put effort in building a respectable wardrobe, you should pay equal attention to your grammar and posture, trust me on this. The word is 'eSpecially' not 'eXspecially'; it's 'esspresso' not 'eXpresso', it's a 'piCture' not a 'piTcher' when referring to a photograph. Also, KNOW womens' clothing, especially shoes - if you comment on a woman's shoes and KNOW what they are, you're in, they WANT you to notice.
Remember, details ARE important, together all the small details make you who you are. Never jump on a trend wagon, wear things to your taste, also - have taste. NEVER wear those goofy shoes that curl up to a point like elf shoes - WHY DO THOSE SHOES EVEN EXIST?! WHO'S BUYING THEM?!
I just started a 'pintrest' board to help educate people, my board is under 'spyder' if you'd care to see some of my favorite things.