Hi,
I am an ex-NYer living in the mountains of TN. Ex-baker,ex- pastry chef, ex-cake finisher, ex-vegan caterer, ex-layout artist, present day astrologer who helps people understand themselves and their relationships, and a beginning vermiculturist. Ever changing Aquarian. Two kids - bookends - 16 years apart. Lots of animals. I have an eye for color and design, and I love to see what the different sign of the zodiac are attracted to in fashion and decorating. I find treasures. Lately, I have found silk ties. Now, I am obsessed with ties. My guy wears dirty old denim and flannel and works with his hands. I wear his jeans and flannels - most of the time. Our office is the outdoors or the kitchen table. But men in suits....yum. I live in a crumbling old farmhouse that is a restoration work in progress, but I greedily eat up pictures of houses in Architectural Digest to feed my alternate reality life that goes on in one of my mulitverses.
This wonderful forum presented itself as I was searching for more info on ties (now that I have about 100 of them, and I sense more are on the way) so that I could find answers for questions like:
Do men love ties or hate them? Or some of both?
How carefully do they choose them? Do most men wait to be given ties at Christmas or do most men want to choose their ties as a form of personal expression?
What kind of messages do ties send? If they speak to me - they must speak to other people, too.
How much is communicated in a label/designer name?
I imagine a very specific man in physical appearance and emotional energy when I look at each one of my found ties. Am I right? Would the man most likely to like that tie look like I imagine him to look? How do men choose a tie?
How many ties do most men have? When I worked in NYC, I had dozens of shoes. Do men have dozens of ties?
Beyond the tie is the shirt, pants, suit, footwear, etc. that some ties just seem to be made for - at least in my imagination. I am here to see if my sense of fashion is correct.
And I am here to learn about ties and men who wear ties.
My guy has already pulled two ties from my growing collection - there may be a real date in my future 
"All Together" aka D. Rae