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I've never really liked the be an asshole approach. I've seen it used and it does work really well for picking up women but for me I could never keep with it. It's not who I am and I wouldn't want to be faking it all the time. I find that just being a good conversationalist works great for me. If I'm interested in someone, I try to make eye contact and if I get that then I just approach them and start a conversation. I don't use any lines or any routines or anything like that. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear but the only thing that really helps is practice. You need to get to a point where conversation flows easily with almost anyone. You need to be able to direct the conversation to an area where you can add to the conversation such that you sound interesting or unique.

For example, I've spent a lot of time in the Canadian Arctic doing diamond exploration so I try to direct the conversation towards travelling where I can introduce my travels. Since what I've done is fairly unique and interesting, it immediately opens up a great topic to talk about.

Hope that helps.
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