Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7
Originally Posted by graphite
the waitresses at my previous restaurant had a very love/hate relationship with particular gentlemen. they'd have guys who came in and tipped well and made lots of small talk (in hopes of impressing the waitress). and while the waitresses on some level, liked the attention and certainly the money, they were tired of being ogled and avoided those guys as much as reasonably possible (while still providing food service).
Hate these kind of stuck-up bitches.
nah. don't take it out of perspective. for any decent guy that might genuinely want to ask out a waitress for a nice date or something, there are 10 assholes who just ogle, laugh, and objectify. they think they have some entitlement, like if a waitress is serving you she also has to submit to asshole behavior. or that, if they drop a few extra bucks on a tip, the waitress will just get on her knees and administer blowjobs. I mean, hookers paid more than a few extra bucks.
it's them, or the guys who otherwise would have no chance, but think adding a few bucks of generosity will sway a girls opinion. it is appreciated, but probably not too to make a girl fall for you.
overall, guys hitting on waitresses is a long shot. if you really like a girl enough and have the time or opportunity, tr getting a job where she is. hahah his plan prolly doesnt suffice for most.
it did work for me tho. I was looking for a short term job for the summer and pretty much just chose the restaurant closest to my apt and had hot waitstaff. applied, job, and was with my current gf within 2 weeks. yup.