also this is a really thread. i mean - i'm not sure what you're looking for... you can send her to a nice public high school and she'll enjoy herself, but a: she's going to be a teenager so she's not going to be happy, and b. her happiness will be in a large part based on intangible factors that you can't determine (or money can't change, unless you're willing to buy her a boob job etc or something like that..) that said I'd look at big ass state schools - she'll have a blast.