There's a point where one gets enough pussy to not need to worry about being the most bangable dude in the room.
not saying I dress like a dandy, but for me and a lot of people that do dress like dandies or whatever, sex is not the goal to what we wear. Hell, even most people considering us to be well dressed is not the important thing. Sometimes we just like to wear interesting things.
The unintentional by-product of this of course is that by having the confidence to wear whatever the fuck I want I inadvertedly become the most bangable dude in the room.