Originally Posted by Geoffrey Firmin
I once dated a nurse who had a boyfriend who was an ex Israeli paratrooper. I moved within 24 hours, in aany case I would say its not a good career move.
If he truly was an ex-Israeli paratrooper, he could probably find you. There is a reason that Israel has never lost a war. To the original question: if she is serious with him, I would stay away. If it is casual (not serious, going nowhere), go ahead. If you really want to be serious with her, and she is serious with him, may I recommend attempting to break them up (covertly), such as providing evidence that he is cheating, a murderer, or hates her favorite animal, and be her knight in shining armor. Or, you can just pay him to leave her, or kill him (that latter of which I do not recommend). Of course, if she just wants a roll in the hay (which is a phrase I have wanted to work into conversation for days), go ahead. Ultimately, if she wants to cheat on her BF, it is her moral dilemma, not yours. You have no commitment to him. If he comes after you, point out the fact that she wanted it (assuming you are not a rapist).