She said yes, but then backed out with the "not feeling so great" card. She should not have had other plans that kept her "busy until 2" after backing out on you.
Actually, she had work that day, but was able to leave early. That's why she was able to make it to the beach.
You might want to quit trying so hard. Many women shy away from a guy who seems to be in constant pursuit. You have to care, but not that much. Because of the female ego, she'll shy away from you if you're persistent, calling everyday.
That's what I've been trying to do. Here's the timeline:
5/20 - wrote her on FB asking some law stuff
5/21 - she wrote back saying she couldn't help. "Hey!!! How have you been? blah blah blah". One "!" would've sufficed. Three "!!!"? Maybe I'm crazy, but I analyze everything.
5/26 - I wrote back saying that I'd need a better excuse to invite her to lunch
5/26 - She wrote back "Great, find a better excuse to invite me to lunch (wink)"
6/07 - small talk via FB
6/07 - reply to my small talk
6/20 - saw her at the gym, but didn't have the balls to ask her out there (we talked for about 20 minutes). Wrote her on FB telling her we could go to the beach on Friday.
6/20 - "Sounds like a great idea (smiley)"
As you can see, I haven't pushed too hard and have tried to play things cool.
Call her Friday and say something came up - don't go into details - and say you'll call her later. Be vague. That should get in her head. She is probably not used to guys blowing her off, and it will throw her a curveball.
Normally, this is what I would do... but I did this before by waiting from 5/26 (when I mentioned I wanted to have lunch) until 6/20 when I finally asked her out. Also, she leaves soon, so my time is limited.
She knows she can have you at this point - you reek of desperation
I reek of desperation here on SF, because I've been completely honest with you guys. IRL, I've tried to do the opposite.
Look man, girls like a man who take initiative and know what they want. Those are Alpha Males qualities and a female can quickly recognize them.
That's what I'm trying to pull off here... the "I won't take no for an answer" attitude. I have two friends who married women that were not interested in them at first, but they kept insisting and ended up scoring.
Sounds like you're in the friendzone to me. Sure, you might get a drunken kiss or two at some point but I don't see a relationship in your future.
If I'm able to score a kiss, I'm completely in. I have no doubt about that. Problem is overcoming this initial shyness I always have.
BTW, I have this other chick lined up at the moment, who is very hot (not as hot as this girl, though) and very good in bed. But I don't give a fuck about her, because she's head over heels for me.
Like I said, I can turn off the switch immediately, but this seems like a girl I could end up marrying, hence my interest in trying to make this work.
Thanks for the advice and keep it coming. And please, keep it classy!