My thoughts exactly. I really don't know how to say this without sounding like a complete jerk, but I'm going to try: If you're 31 years old and still so inept with relationship issues/questions that you're asking for help on an internet forum, you probably have some serious personal issues to work through before you start a relationship with anyone.
In the brilliant coming of age story Can't Buy Me Love we are shown otherwise. The onetime seeming succes in love leads to life long happiness, or so it is implied at the end of the movie. @Richard: Classy move showing those pictures.
classic iphone/facebook generation. trying to get a date, so instead of calling the girl directly and just keep trying to pursue her/court her the normal social human way, they instead text and if dont get a response , start an internet thread on a public forum asking for advice and posting pictures of the girl unbeknownst to her.