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Originally Posted by
RSS 
This is extortion.
FTFY

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Originally Posted by
Bradford 
Actually I'm not even sure if it is ethical of them to offer me money to revise my feedback. While I might get some small personal benefit, it seems to undermine the whole concept of the feedback system.
Does Ebay have a policy about this?
it is not unethical but it could cheating, if they really knew the sunglasses were never coming back and were just holding your $ as long as they could, then they are offering $ to cover up their bad business.
if however they had truly hoped the shades would return to stock and finally refunded you when it became clear they were done with. in that case they are just doing their best to please you and revising the feedback would be a fair request.
i guess you would have to do your best to judge their intentions, but alas the deed has been done. not an unjustifiable feedback imo
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Originally Posted by
tj100 
I think the only ethical way to revise is make it positive, with the comment that "My transaction was negative, but they paid me $20 to leave positive feedback, so I did."
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SpooPoker 
+100

funny indeed but i dont think this will help the seller.
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Bradford 
Update - I left the negative feedback as written.
While I realize they were not trying to scam me, my feeling is that the feedback is meant to reflect on the totality of the transaction and even though they eventually refunded my money, it took more work from my end than I should have had to exert.
Had I not made the effort to initiate the communication and to follow through with them, I don't know that they would ever have returned my funds.
As a buyer, the seller's actions (or inaction) is something I want to know. And considering that they are not some mom and pop retailer, I doubt my single negative feedback will be too bad for their business among the thousands of other feedbacks they receive.
sound fair to me.