Originally Posted by Biscotti
I'm out and about six nights a week usually - bars, restaurants, parks. You just have to meet people; they introduce you to their friends - and eventually you have a solid network. There is always somewhere to go every night for cheap (and I live in a small city); just concentrate of enjoying yourself, and don't refer to women as creatures.
You see, I was thinking about this last night. My friend and I were bar hopping after dinner, and it's all so contrived and preconceived; the women there are expecting
men to hit on them and try to strike up meaningless and desultory conversation. It's all about the environment. I think if one were to approach a woman in a different setting, other the common bar, restaurant, club, it would be a much different scenario. The unpredictability is, in my opinion, what makes it a bit more interesting. So, that is why I am spending a lot of time in fancy cheese shops and at Farmer's Markets.