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Do you consider yourself to be a moral person?

HgaleK

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I realized today that I'm not a moral person. I don't like hurting people, but otherwise have no issue with dishonesty, stealing, manipulation, etc. It doesn't even have to be to further a goal of mine- sometimes it's just tempting to pocket something or manipulate somebody, or lie simply for the sake of lying.

I'm curious about the rest of yall.

No poal because I want people to discuss, no click and run.
 

Piobaire

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I think you should seek elected office!
 

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I follow my morals carefully because I don't feel well when I break them.

I guess there's two steps to this question. Where you set your morals and how often you deviate from them. I set set my morals around average (not religious) and I do not deviate much from them.
 

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I am when it comes to friends, loved ones, and work.
 

Sir Humphrey Appleby

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I, Sir Humphrey Appleby, lie, manipulate, twist words, confuse, hide the truth and steer events to my own benefit on a regular basis.

IRL I only lie if its to keep my private life private or to protect somebody else and nobody else gets hurt too much from it. I lie generate a debate on a daily basis, but people who know me and have half a brain cell can tell when I'm doing that because I tend to get extraordinarily racist and right/left wing. I won't steal or anything, some of my morals may seem a bit contradictory to others but they are strictly obeyed if its a remotely serious matter.

So yes, I think I am a moral person.
 

VelvetGreen

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Originally Posted by HgaleK
I realized today that I'm not a moral person. I don't like hurting people, but otherwise have no issue with dishonesty, stealing, manipulation, etc. It doesn't even have to be to further a goal of mine- sometimes it's just tempting to pocket something or manipulate somebody, or lie simply for the sake of lying.

I'm curious about the rest of yall.

No poal because I want people to discuss, no click and run.


You are a moral failure.

Saying you have no morals is the get-out of a psychopath or a person who does not want to take responsibility for his duty towards others. In a civilised society, everybody has such a duty. It is what supposedly distinguishes us from less civilised societies or indeed the animal kingdom. Your abrogation of this duty is a failure towards your fellow men and a failure as a citizen. It betrays a puerile lack of appreciation for the consequences of actions - what distinguishes thinking adults from children and is at the root of most behavioural teachings.

Morality is not a genetic characteristic but a commonly accepted ideal people are supposed to strive towards. Denying this is a weak and pathetic act, and circumlocution is even worse, and is deserving of censure and punishment when you get caught. Social codes demand effort. This kind of stuff is a get-out.

There is also a difference between the occasional lapse, and acceptance of lapse as a norm. It's a slippery slope.
 

Piobaire

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If you generally act "moral," what is your motivation to do that?
 

Sir Humphrey Appleby

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Originally Posted by Piobaire
If you generally act "moral," what is your motivation to do that?

So people don't **** you over and to make sure they like you and might want to give you a leg up. Ultimately that is what your brain is thinking when it makes you be moral.
 

Carlisle Blues

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Originally Posted by Piobaire
If you generally act "moral," what is your motivation to do that?
It leads to a sense of equanimity and inner peace.
 

HgaleK

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Originally Posted by VelvetGreen
There is also a difference between the occasional lapse, and acceptance of lapse as a norm. It's a slippery slope.

I have the fundamental fallback/catch that I love people. It keeps my actions in line normally as I don't like hurting people.
 

kwilkinson

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I absolutely do. But not b/c I think it makes me a better person or b/c I get some enjoyment out of it. It's just what I do I guess.
 

Don Carlos

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Morality is a human construct, and is relative from person to person, culture to culture, group to group. Universal morality does not exist. As such, I feel no overriding impulse to behave morally except out of compassion or empathy. In this way, I can be a non-sociopath who is totally amoral.
 

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1. yes i do

2. gale is a good guy, dont let his post throw you off
 

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