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post #46 of 52
5/17/11 at 2:15pm
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Originally Posted by hannahmontana View Post
ironic. you have zero evidence to support your claim about how she would react to the op dancing, just your imagination, which you then state as fact. then, to put the icing on the cake, after your totally made up claim, you say that WOMEN are "anti-logical".
I asked the gf about this just now. She said she'd be pissed about it. It's understood what the rules are, but they're self enforced. It becomes a problem when you get pushy about them. I feel the same way. It's not illogical either. It demonstrates a lack of trust. All of that said, my gf would disrespect me if I sat back and watched her dancing on other guys. She doesn't think that it's healthy for the OP's wife to see him watching her with someone else.
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post #47 of 52
5/17/11 at 2:26pm
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I asked the gf about this just now. She said she'd be pissed about it. It's understood what the rules are, but they're self enforced. It becomes a problem when you get pushy about them. I feel the same way. It's not illogical either. It demonstrates a lack of trust.

All of that said, my gf would disrespect me if I sat back and watched her dancing on other guys. She doesn't think that it's healthy for the OP's wife to see him watching her with someone else.

ballroom and salsa dances will usually have people dancing with many partners. it is considered rude to dance with just one person and also rude to turn down a dance for no good reason.

I see your point about lack of trust and respect issues, though. in a club environment, dancing is far more territorial and dancing with someone is often thought of as sexual interest. I would have an issue with a SO dancing with others there.
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post #48 of 52
5/17/11 at 2:42pm
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Originally Posted by hannahmontana View Post
ballroom and salsa dances will usually have people dancing with many partners. it is considered rude to dance with just one person and also rude to turn down a dance for no good reason. I see your point about lack of trust and respect issues, though. in a club environment, dancing is far more territorial and dancing with someone is often thought of as sexual interest. I would have an issue with a SO dancing with others there.
Oh. I didn't realize that this wasn't the club. The rule at the club is the same as flirting for us: if your partner is there, you don't grind on other people and you don't flirt with other people. If this is more formal, I could still see a touch of jealousy with salsa or tango. That being the case, I'd dance if I was there. If the nature of the gig is multiple partners, it'll allow the guy to both stake his claim on some level by dancing with her, and demo sexual viability by dancing with other girls. It keeps things equal as long as it doesn't become petty, and mitigates the respect issue that comes when she dances with other guys. Showing up and not dancing while she is isn't good bull. On some level she gets that you aren't stepping up while other men are participating in act that is at least somewhat sexual. It's better to just not be there in that case.
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post #49 of 52
5/17/11 at 7:35pm
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Oh. I didn't realize that this wasn't the club. The rule at the club is the same as flirting for us: if your partner is there, you don't grind on other people and you don't flirt with other people.

If this is more formal, I could still see a touch of jealousy with salsa or tango. That being the case, I'd dance if I was there. If the nature of the gig is multiple partners, it'll allow the guy to both stake his claim on some level by dancing with her, and demo sexual viability by dancing with other girls. It keeps things equal as long as it doesn't become petty, and mitigates the respect issue that comes when she dances with other guys.

Showing up and not dancing while she is isn't good bull. On some level she gets that you aren't stepping up while other men are participating in act that is at least somewhat sexual. It's better to just not be there in that case.

we see eye to one red eye on this then dude.
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post #50 of 52
5/17/11 at 7:53pm
Wicked, bruh. The red eye thing went right over my head.
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post #51 of 52
5/18/11 at 12:03am
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Wicked, bruh. The red eye thing went right over my head.

your avatar... isn't that cyclops from the X-Men?
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post #52 of 52
5/18/11 at 8:01pm
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Originally Posted by hannahmontana View Post
your avatar... isn't that cyclops from the X-Men?
Oh. Ooooooh. I've got it now. Avatars don't show up very well on tapatalk, so it's easy to forget about them.
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