While at the local bar, I run into a girl I've met once and seen around town a few times but don't know. We're both drinking and one thing leads to another. After half going at it in every bar in town, she ends up at my place. Instead of going home in the morning, she sticks around so we just keep at it, go out for breakfast/drinks, and then back at it. I finally get her out around mid-day and only because I already late for an out-of-town party. She spends the rest of the day and the next insisting she's ready and available for more.
Unfortunately, she ended up with (probably stole) something I really wanted back. We exchange texts for a few days until we arrange a quick mid-day (and totally innocent) meeting so I can get my stuff back. The meeting is short, drama-free and ends with a quick hug. Since this, she's been texting, calling, etc that she wants to get together again.
She's insanely hot and I hit on her at the bar, but she's too crazy for me. I have a few better choices that I've also been out with (and who wouldn't be happy about this even if we aren't exclusive).
I haven't taken the bait on any of her explicit texts, but I have had a few exchanges with her about mundane stuff because I don't want to be an ass (and she's almost too hot to resist, especially after a few drinks). When she suggests getting together, I either ignore it or am too busy. Obviously, I never pick up her calls. I assumed she'd take the hint and things would just sort of fizzle out with no hurt feelings. She isn't and they haven't.
I'm going to run into this girl a lot and don't need any drama or this girl pissed off at me. Clearly, the exchanges have just encouraged her. I have a feeling this girl is going to create problems if she feels slighted. Any amicable way out of this (especially one that will keep her from making scene when she sees me out with other women in a very small town)? Would meeting her for drink and making sure no one feels the spark help? Should I just give this more time to fizzle?
TLDR: Took a crazy chic home, now she thinks we're dating. I want to take other girls out, but she's gonna flip when I run into her. FML.
Unfortunately, she ended up with (probably stole) something I really wanted back. We exchange texts for a few days until we arrange a quick mid-day (and totally innocent) meeting so I can get my stuff back. The meeting is short, drama-free and ends with a quick hug. Since this, she's been texting, calling, etc that she wants to get together again.
She's insanely hot and I hit on her at the bar, but she's too crazy for me. I have a few better choices that I've also been out with (and who wouldn't be happy about this even if we aren't exclusive).
I haven't taken the bait on any of her explicit texts, but I have had a few exchanges with her about mundane stuff because I don't want to be an ass (and she's almost too hot to resist, especially after a few drinks). When she suggests getting together, I either ignore it or am too busy. Obviously, I never pick up her calls. I assumed she'd take the hint and things would just sort of fizzle out with no hurt feelings. She isn't and they haven't.
I'm going to run into this girl a lot and don't need any drama or this girl pissed off at me. Clearly, the exchanges have just encouraged her. I have a feeling this girl is going to create problems if she feels slighted. Any amicable way out of this (especially one that will keep her from making scene when she sees me out with other women in a very small town)? Would meeting her for drink and making sure no one feels the spark help? Should I just give this more time to fizzle?
TLDR: Took a crazy chic home, now she thinks we're dating. I want to take other girls out, but she's gonna flip when I run into her. FML.
I'm going to try and resist getting trolled. Just tell her you want to be friends. It's not complicated. 
