we had a few wedding photos up, but nothing outrageous. A good chunk of them weren't even from us, but relatives or friends and the like. I actually liked the ones we didn't post since we got to see others having fun and not posing for the photographer.
We didn't even call our honeymoon a honeymoon (it was a few months after the wedding), so this simple fact reduced the annoyance factor by 50%.
Come to think of it, none of my friends really had any annoying wedding stuff, even though plenty have been married. The "worst" was this Italian woman i knew from high school (she looks like a bird) who always plays up her Italian-ness even though her family is plenty far removed from "home". I quick eye-roll, whatever.
A bunch of years ago, she had people over and her family cooked meatballs. "meatball madness" it was called, and it was supposed to be epic. lol, those things were awful. I am clearly biased because my wife makes her grandmother's meatball recipe, and those are the best ever. I know everybody's grandmother makes the best meatballs, blah blah blah, but I never had the opportunity to meet her grandmother so I'm biased only off of taste. She made them for me last week, and god damn were they good.