Originally Posted by Thomas
That's fair enough. I met this one girl who was nice looking and we clicked, so to speak. We were doing well enough until I met her parents, which is where I drew the line for that one. Frankly, she couldn't have been hot enough to overcome that particular issue. Maybe I think too far ahead.
I don't think there's such a thing as thinking too far ahead. You're eventually going to fall in love and marry someone and you have no way of knowing which girl it will be from the start. If you've got issues with sleeping with unattractive women, then it should most definitely be a consideration right from the beginning in order to spare both you and her a lot of grief.
The one girl I've fallen for in the past was probably one of the least attractive girls I've slept with and she was rife with issues. However, I fell for her and it inevitably failed. Thank god though, because it was her mother that i was speaking of above.
You don't choose who you fall for, it just sort of happens without your thinking about it and that's the sort of thing I prefer not to leave to chance. Even back when I was dating that girl I fell for, my feelings for her crept up on me before we were even dating. I never would have given her a chance if I wasn't stuck in such close proximity to her all the time.
I look at this whole thing as not spoiling your appetite. If you stuff yourself with chips now, you might have to pass on the filet mignon later.