need help with dressing for the summer - Page 2

Don't get sperry's that is something that would have gone with your previous summer outfit's. Get a canvas shoe or espadrilles which has already been recommended. Personally I would recommend Riviera's Leisure shoes.

Well I guess the question to OP is, how much money do you have?

or the comme des garcon x gs canvas/suede shoe. those are nice and ~ $125.

Gingham.

Fuck. Why do so many noobs express the exact same fear? You should focus on trying to look your best using a style that makes you feel good/comfortable within your environment and stop worrying if you look like an "adult" or not. Stop asking for lists of clothing to wear and don't trust anyone whom tries to provide you with such a list. Such people are either providing you with their own preferences or relaying what they feel society expects to see. Do you actually like Sperry's? Do you feel drawn to them? Do you feel (psychologically) comfortable wearing them? Or would you feel more comfortable wearing sneakers? A few years back I actually tried wearing boat shoes believing they would look more dressy than sneakers. I got the recommendation from someone else and believing they knew more than me at the time, I followed their advice. Big mistake! I never felt comfortable wearing those damn things since they have a preppy vibe that's just not whom I am. Because of this, I never really embraced the style that would go with them and thus they always looked stupid on me. If you actually like the shorts, tee, and sneakers look there is no reason you have to totally abandon that. But maybe you could start with that and slowly improve it? For example try replacing your AE tees with a solid colored tee or maybe upgrade your sneakers to one of the more expensive fashion brands discussed on this forum. And regarding if this look is "adult" or not.... Last summer I noticed most middle aged men were wearing cargo shorts, sneakers, and and tee. So I would hardily classify this as a "kids" look. If your outfit comprised of high quality pieces that are well styled, it will not look like a kids outfit. Oh and your first efforts at improvement will likely suck. Expect to dedicate some time to this endeavor if you want good results-- possibly a year or more.

Flat front shorts in various colors and patterns are fine for summer days... Wear them with your sperrys, sneakers, or even things like loafers. My black polo / white shirt / black quoddy (or black/white apc Nike) is probably my best summer outfit.

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I think it's because it's more or less on the other side of the spectrum (short of wearing a full suit). When I went through the same thing as the OP around 2 years ago, I went from what he was wearing...Nikes/Jordans to pretty much business casual AKA stuff from the local BR every day..to school and such. After that transformation you begin to find a happy median for lack of better words.

Now I have a lot of Aldens, but I also have sneakers. I guess it's sorta like dressing from both worlds.

Walk into a shoe store with $300 and you walk out with one shoe.

Unless you live in Alaska, do not follow this advice. Shorts + a good pair of leather sandals are a must for summer, moc's are good also, just take care of your feet

And don't ask questions in the "noob" thread unless you want your question to never be answered



Agreed.