Originally Posted by nmprisons
I believe you mean to say that "wedding shoes" should not be that color.
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I would say that it depends on the wedding. We aren't having a formal affair, but, rather, are getting married on a farm. amongst friends and family who are being encouraged to dress relatively casually. Hard to argue that brown doesn't belong on a farm and I can't think of anything about exchanging rings, kissing, or dancing that would require black shoes. But, it is my first wedding, so I could be wrong.
something along these lines. now i remember the story. a lot of people married since i joined sf. not everyone announced it, though.
imo, there's a fine line between relatively casually and not appropriate for a wedding. i couldn't bring myself wearing brown shoes with a navy suit. will not happen.
iirc, these shoes mean a lot to you and are affiliated with the whole ceremony. this is all what matters. tbh, i hope they fit...