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post #31 of 41
4/9/11 at 2:06am
The key is to be honest with her. And vice versa of course.

You said she is extremely hot and she may find you so.

If you both know what you are about to get into I say do it and have a great time.

What got my attention was that 2 people voted that they don't do moms!

I assume they are straight and that they are young. Because it begs the question. If they ever get married and have a kid, will they stop having sex with their wife? It is sad but this actually happens in some cases. And I think it is even more common that the wife loses interest in sex after having a baby.

And to unjung. It seems like a no lose for you and you might even find you like her baby. But do not have a baby of yours and hers though, till you get much, much further along with her, if it ever happens at all!
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post #32 of 41
4/13/11 at 4:01pm
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Originally Posted by Mark from Plano View Post
Be a man. Just be honest and you and she will have no regrets. She may have no more long-term plans for you than you have for her. But if she does, you'd be a jerk not to be honest with her.
This. Man up. Honesty and integrity are not to be set aside in the interest of getting laid, making money, etc. If you can't move through life and get what you want by being honest, you're a sorry excuse for a man.
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post #33 of 41
4/14/11 at 2:25am
why should he say anything to her? if she doesnt ask then dont say anything. if she does then tell the truth. im sure shes not going to tell him if she just wants to mess around, so why should he tell her.
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post #34 of 41
4/14/11 at 2:32am
Pics!

I agree with what others have mentioned. She is an adult and knows how it is. She probably isn't expecting a prince charming to take her kid to the park. I'd actually approach this as if she didn't have a kid and see how she treats this subject.

Of course I only recommend this because you say she is very attractive.
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post #35 of 41
4/14/11 at 9:16am
You should be honest about your intentions. Chances are she's not looking for anything serious either.

I used to rule out single moms. Then, when I was thirty, I realized that the guy I call Dad, had after all, married my mother when I was four and he manned the fuck up and did a reasonably good job of raising me. So I changed my stance - it's still a negative, no doubt, but not a dealbreaker. Fortunately, it looks like I'm off the market for good now.
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post #36 of 41
4/14/11 at 10:54am
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Originally Posted by FLMountainMan View Post
You should be honest about your intentions. Chances are she's not looking for anything serious either.

I used to rule out single moms. Then, when I was thirty, I realized that the guy I call Dad, had after all, married my mother when I was four and he manned the fuck up and did a reasonably good job of raising me. So I changed my stance - it's still a negative, no doubt, but not a dealbreaker. Fortunately, it looks like I'm off the market for good now.

Good for you and him.
Good for you!
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post #37 of 41
4/14/11 at 10:59am
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This ought to be required reading. You never know where life will lead you. Thanks.
I hear life can, in fact, be like a box of chocolates.
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post #38 of 41
4/14/11 at 11:16am
Just because she's a single mom doesn't mean she wants to marry you.

I'd say where she'd be different from a woman without kids is that IF the relationship gets serious, she'll want to get very serious because of her kid. But she may be more inclined to keep it casual otherwise.
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post #39 of 41
4/16/11 at 9:49am
If you want to keep it casual, make sure it's a very loose arrangement. Never, under any circumstances, hang out with the kid or form any kind of bond...because if you do then break it off with the mom, they can come after you for child support. (well depending on your state, of course - in quite a few provinces in Canada it's common)
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post #40 of 41
4/19/11 at 5:06am
I make a habit of not volunteering information if it's not asked for. This is one of those situations. Don't bring it up unless she wants to know.
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post #41 of 41
4/28/11 at 3:42pm
I haven't dated a single mom but it could easily happen for me based on the fact that I'm in my early 40's. I would think the main issue is to not spend time with the children until or unless the relationship has become serious. The mom is an adult and is responsible for her actions with regards to any romantic relationships. It wouldn't be fair if the child formed and emotional bond and then the relationship didn't work out for some reason.
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