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post #1 of 41
4/6/11 at 10:59pm
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I am not into investing my resources into another man's DNA (four year old kid). However, this girl (former coworker - actually, receptionist, mentioned in another thread) is clearly making herself available to me, and she is retarded hot. She wants to go for dinner and drinks when I get back from my trip. Can I go for it? Tell her before we bang that I won't be around for the long haul? Wait until after? Or just not let it go there if I'm not interested in carrying the baggage.
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post #2 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:00pm
Be a man. Just be honest and you and she will have no regrets. She may have no more long-term plans for you than you have for her. But if she does, you'd be a jerk not to be honest with her.
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post #3 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:12pm
I'd say tell your stance to her first, so that both parties will know what's going on, and so no regrets or "surprises" will happen later on. Or you can always just do it and think about the complex stuff later.
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post #4 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:16pm
In this scenario, if you were a harem-male blue monkey, you would practice infanticide to allow the female to become estrous once again so you could gain reproductive advantage.
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post #5 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:17pm
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Originally Posted by mm84321 View Post
In this scenario, if you were a harem-male blue monkey, you would practice infanticide to allow the female to become estrous once again so you could gain reproductive advantage.

Evolutionary psychology was my favorite uni class.
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post #6 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:23pm
If you're uncomfortable with it then run the fuck awayyyyy! Met a young woman of 20 years of age. Cute as a button with wholesome innocent face. Found out she was a single mother with a 4yo. Ran the fuck away I did.
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post #7 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:30pm
I've tapped many women like this. There is no shame in it. She's an adult, she knows the game. Don't lie but you don't have to tell her anymore than you tell any woman.
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post #8 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:38pm
man, it's not like you have to promise marriage to everything that moistens your reed, right? Toss that doggy a bone.
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post #9 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:43pm
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Originally Posted by texas_jack View Post
I've tapped many women like this. There is no shame in it. She's an adult, she knows the game. Don't lie but you don't have to tell her anymore than you tell any woman.
+1

To the OP, maybe she just wants to use you for some sechs. You're not going to refuse. Other smaller men are running away, at this point she just wants a man on top...put a smile on her face.
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post #10 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:49pm
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Decent advice from both camps... I'll just take it easy for now. [Edited due to being lame on my part.]
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post #11 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:51pm
The salient question: Are those images pre or postnatal?
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post #12 of 41
4/6/11 at 11:54pm
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The salient question: Are those images pre or postnatal?

That was post.
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post #13 of 41
4/7/11 at 2:03am
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Originally Posted by Chico2007 View Post
+1

To the OP, maybe she just wants to use you for some sechs. You're not going to refuse. Other smaller men are running away, at this point she just wants a man on top...put a smile on her face.

For some reason I feel like I just got kicked in the balls...

and unjung, looks like you just brought along a spammer XD:
http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=235986
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post #14 of 41
4/7/11 at 2:37am
Be honest with her.

I was in the same boat 3+ years ago and now I get to go to 7 year old birthday parties only because some boy couldn't man up. I've never looked at it as "investing my resources" into anything but a lovely child whom daily I wonder why was I given the chance to be called dad. We now have a second child and I kick my self in the rear that I missed these first days with my older but such is life. At no point did I ever say to Lady C that a bang was all I was after(though she's a champ let me tell ya) so I never mislead but those first few visits with little Miss C got me hooked....kid's can do that to a guy.
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post #15 of 41
4/7/11 at 5:14am
you arent a monkey. you could have a positive impact on the kids life which would be good for society as a whole.

or not. but who cares about your DNA?
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