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post #76 of 126
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Originally Posted by NorCal View Post
And stop with the stalking. There is NOTHING to be gained driving yourself crazy with online shenangans.

Hard to do when new friend news stories pop up in your Facebook feed. But I just hit the "x" filter button. Weird age we live in.
post #77 of 126
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Originally Posted by NorCal View Post
Usually not one for games but this actually is a pretty good line. Do one better and actually ask someone else.

I think it is, up to the "However, I do need to make a call right now, so lets talk soon." Something about that feels forced. I would just leave it saying you will ask someone else.
post #78 of 126
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
No one is stopping you from getting to know her but it is an organic thing not someone you can devote 3 hrs to in a controlled environment rife with the bullshit of presenting yourself as an eligible partner.

True. I guess I just kinda like the happy hour/diner date. No reason you can't do both.
post #79 of 126
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
I'll never understand people who plan some sort of restaurant+treasure chase bullshit when they could just be like "yo my friend is DJing next thursday, this is gonna be great, wanna drop by?" You're going anyway, plenty of people will be there including other girls and it's not some sort of lame "getting to know you under dimmed lights" bullshit. Get to know her after you guys have fucked. Going to an art gallery or to see a movie or play may be useful at some point cause you wanna know if you're talking to a cretin or not.

Lol, I don't post very much in these things, but this is complete bullshit

Ey gurl, Ima take to da club then we coul fuck
post #80 of 126
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
I'll never understand people who plan some sort of restaurant+treasure chase bullshit when they could just be like "yo my friend is DJing next thursday, this is gonna be great, wanna drop by?" You're going anyway, plenty of people will be there including other girls and it's not some sort of lame "getting to know you under dimmed lights" bullshit. Get to know her after you guys have fucked. Going to an art gallery or to see a movie or play may be useful at some point cause you wanna know if you're talking to a cretin or not.

Depends on who you hang around. Some women don't like that sort of thing. They like "actual" dates.
post #81 of 126
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Originally Posted by RegisDB9 View Post
Lol, I don't post very much in these things, but this is complete bullshit

Ey gurl, Ima take to da club then we coul fuck

Oh please, not every place someone DJs at is like some Jersey shore hangout. It's not "I have a bottle tonight babeeeeyyey come lapdance" more like "I am doing something fun w. cool people and come hang out." If you don't like bars or whatever insert some sort of other event where she's an interesting addition but not the motivation for the whole thing happening.
post #82 of 126
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
Oh please, not every place someone DJs at is like some Jersey shore hangout. It's not "I have a bottle tonight babeeeeyyey come lapdance" more like "I am doing something fun w. cool people and come hang out." If you don't like bars or whatever insert some sort of other event where she's an interesting addition but not the motivation for the whole thing happening.

My response was based on the fact that I think getting to know a chick after fucking is not really getting to know her. If I fucked her, that was all I am interested in doing. I personally prefer the candle lit dinner, yet I am lucky enough to have a few clubs around here that are more merengue and salsa inspired. House music is terrible after 30 minutes. I did that and basically had to learn sing language

I might be a minority here, but I just don't put that much thought behind relationships, if it happens, it happens, this mindset has proven very successful. Women are not going to be explained....ever, you just have to let things go as they will. They are going to go that way regardless.
post #83 of 126
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Originally Posted by RegisDB9 View Post
My response was based on the fact that I think getting to know a chick after fucking is not really getting to know her. If I fucked her, that was all I am interested in doing. I personally prefer the candle lit dinner, yet I am lucky enough to have a few clubs around here that are more merengue and salsa inspired. House music is terrible after 30 minutes. I did that and basically had to learn sing language

I might be a minority here, but I just don't put that much thought behind relationships, if it happens, it happens, this mindset has proven very successful. Women are not going to be explained....ever, you just have to let things go as they will. They are going to go that way regardless.

Your response was "bullshit" not "I prefer". As to the idea that you'll really get to know someone early in the relationship well hahahaha, sucker.
post #84 of 126
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
Your response was "bullshit" not "I prefer". As to the idea that you'll really get to know someone early in the relationship well hahahaha, sucker.

Bullshit gets the point across so much better

Just by posting here I think it takes away some of the credence behind what I say, but it really has worked out well for me

I think the "sucker" is people who follow the advice given here and don't do what comes natural to them. Taking a chick to a club is by no means a creative or unique experience
post #85 of 126
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Originally Posted by jrd617 View Post
I suppose the part that really annoys me is that she would go out of their way to say she thinks the next date will be "really fun" and then pull this BS. Why not just not answer me in the first place? I've never seen anything like that. Some people are just incredible. Ironically she posted a letter to a politician about morality on her blog. She seems devoid of morals and common courtesy to me.
So she changed her mind. What's "incredible" about that? What is immoral about that? She probably found time to sit down and think about it and realized something probably won't work out. It's not like she pinky promised you a date. Relax.
post #86 of 126
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Originally Posted by RegisDB9 View Post
Bullshit gets the point across so much better

Just by posting here I think it takes away some of the credence behind what I say, but it really has worked out well for me

I think the "sucker" is people who follow the advice given here and don't do what comes natural to them. Taking a chick to a club is by no means a creative or unique experience

Candle lit dinners are, though
post #87 of 126
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Originally Posted by Lane View Post
Candle lit dinners are, though

Basically anything you can think of have been thought of before. I say do what you like and makes you feel comfortable. If she's a good match for you, then she will have fun too.
post #88 of 126
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Originally Posted by Lane View Post
Candle lit dinners are, though
Simply put. Candle lit dinner > night out clubbing, for me Edit: What this guy said^
post #89 of 126
Threak is a perfect example of why I don't think you should be social networking friends with someone you are just beginning to "date." Get to know them by actually, you know, getting to know them. Plus, honestly, until you are in some sort of committed situation you shouldn't be spying on them that closely anyways. Things like facebook let you peel the curtain back a little too far way too soon (imho).
post #90 of 126
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Originally Posted by willpower View Post
The best reply to a chick that blows you off at the last minute is

"No biggie at all, I'll ask somebody else. However, I do need to make a call right now, so lets talk soon"

Don't make any of the above sound like a threat or put any energy into the meaning. Just say it in a cheery, matter of factly way. It'll make her crazy. You've telegraphed that you've got options and this will broadside her. Don't be surprised if she changes her tune right then and there. Those magic words play directly on the natural competitive nature between women. It'll make her nuts that she has competition - even though that competition is with her imagination.

Good strategy.
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