Originally Posted by Fuuma
Oh please, not every place someone DJs at is like some Jersey shore hangout. It's not "I have a bottle tonight babeeeeyyey come lapdance" more like "I am doing something fun w. cool people and come hang out." If you don't like bars or whatever insert some sort of other event where she's an interesting addition but not the motivation for the whole thing happening.
My response was based on the fact that I think getting to know a chick after fucking is not really getting to know her. If I fucked her, that was all I am interested in doing. I personally prefer the candle lit dinner, yet I am lucky enough to have a few clubs around here that are more merengue and salsa inspired. House music is terrible after 30 minutes. I did that and basically had to learn sing language
I might be a minority here, but I just don't put that much thought behind relationships, if it happens, it happens, this mindset has proven very successful. Women are not going to be explained....ever, you just have to let things go as they will. They are going to go that way regardless.