Originally Posted by jrd617
Another thing to consider. Here's where the plot thickens. She cross posts on Facebook/Twitter, where she posts a ton of work related stuff (does PR stuff for politicians). In a way, that supports the workaholic theory. However, she (quite stupidly) has the same usernname on a dating site, which comes up in Google. Which makes me think she's not interested and could be seeing someone else.
If you met her on the internet she's definitely dating someone else, or multiple people right now assuming she's even somewhat attractive. It's not like she's gonna stop dating other people because you had one date. Even if she liked you she would continue in that behavior until it was clear to her that you weren't gonna run off for something better, because if you're attractive she knows you're seeing multiple women too. This is a potential problem with internet dating. It's all too easy to perpetually look for someone just a bit better... Can people see who's looking at their facebook/twitter and how often? I'd stop that shit ASAP. You don't want to seem like an e-stalker... FYI, being a workaholic doesn't preclude them being organized and able to show up for a date on time. I'm a workaholic and I do. I've also been dating almost nothing but professional women lately, and sometimes they might be a few minutes late or get caught-up leaving the office or something (happens to me too), but cancelling 2hrs in advance isn't cool and shouldn't be tolerated if it becomes any sort of pattern (which to me would be more than once at such an early stage). Chick sounds like a flake, honestly.