Have you ever explicitly paid for sex? - Page 2

I wanted to this past summer in Amsterdam just to say I have,

I haven't, but for those who have, what's it like? In my head, I imagine it to be completely awkward. Was it good?

Was in magaluf and got cornered in an alley by a huge black girl, asking for 20 euro, gave it to her expecting her to take in and run- but clearly she had other plans...



yes it was awkward, especially as my friends were standing right across from me

I have been approached several times but nothing ever came of it. My fear of STDs is the biggest deterrent. I had one experience that proved very flattering though. I was in Vegas with group of friends and a hooker approached me without having acknowledged my buddies. We all got a kick out of it

It was not awkward. But it took a bit of research to find exactly what I was seeking. I was not disappointed.

And you fellows who are being approached ... we'll let it suffice to say that there are other ways to go about this. On the street would indeed be awkward from my point of view. Moreover, I'm not likely to be on that kind of street.

This being Style Forum ... perhaps you will understand if I say there is cheap off the rack ... but at the other end there is bespoke.

Actually, the streetwalkers in Honalulu are freakin' hot, and very tempting. I haven't, but I am a huge believer that prostitution should be legal. I am also at an age where I understand I'm not the first person to have sex with any of the women I'm with... but I prefer to know I'm the first person that day.

Lol. After your girlfriend thread you are just seeking punishment.

me too

I think I gave my girl friend $20 for a blowjob once when we were both very drunk and she just wanted to go to bed.

Lakewolf had an interesting post a while back about how he started frequenting prostitutes and then became habituated to it. Really insightful, which was funny given his avatar.

I've always said that if you ain't with a professional, you ain't ****ing.

"Explicitly paid" does not entail any of the following tricks:

1. "I'm paying for your time only, not for anything which might happen during this time between two consenting adults"

2. "I had a wonderfull time. I suppose you'll be neading some money to cover the cab fare back to your place. Here's $300... for the cab."

3. "Thanks for the blow-job. Here's a $500 donation to your tuition fund."


Accordingly, I have NEVER explicitly paid for sex.

You sound like you have a decent amount of first hand experience going bespoke for an escort. Please don't leave it to our imaginations and elaborate on some details that you specify for your bespoke experience or that you think should be specified to have a really memorable time.