Noodles, equating manliness with straightness is rather old-fashioned, perhaps?
Anyway, this is certainly the place where one can express one's Liberace side. For the first year in this forum, my jaw dropped in surprise roughly every few weeks at the mention by member "X", then "Y" then "Z" etc of a female wife and some children. Frankly, at the beginning I just assumed most of you were homosexual. I'm not naming names, but yeah. Not Pingson, though.
Now I realise that SF is merely the campest forum in the universe. And we're all in it together.
P.S. Do you own more than one Barbara Streisand record, or dance by yourself ever to Lady Gaga? I'm just asking.