Stax, be cool and listen to Rudals-Noodles. This thread is the most brutal of them all, and getting upset about it isn't going to help. A lot of members are very blunt - especially here - and some are downright and deliberately rude. It doesn't matter. It's the internet, it's not real. We all know that the rudest ones have acne and live in their mothers' basements. That's just how forums work.
Take a deep breath, and realise none of this is personal - even when it is. It's just a mixture of snap observations and languid abuse by strangers who don't really know or care who you are. And that's OK. Fasten the correct button on your jacket, post another pic (include shoes) and let's start again. Everything will be fine, as long as you never, ever get upset. Promise.