I feel like some people could benefit from reading this book. There's a chapter on how to critique without sounding like a cunt.
Is there a chapter on responding to constructive criticism with arrogance and defensiveness? I generally am quite welcoming, kind and much more constructive to the newbies than most people here. But some people just cannot be helped. And then it is fun to take pot-shots.
I think a great comparison here could be the relatively new Kai, who is also an attorney. He clearly spends a great deal of money on and pays a lot of attention to his wardrobe. And he has needed some refinement, and that is why he posts on here. And he has taken people's advice and critique with a great deal of grace and improved, and that is what this board should be used for.