You're right, what kind of forum seeks out new members. The healthy approach is outsiders be damned.
Mr. Daniels, closing the bottom button only is, in a way, making the best of a bad situation. Staringxgold, you may not read this, but that suit just doesn't work on your frame -- and, to be honest, while I like clothes that are fairly loose, I have to admit: that jacket looks too tight through the chest and waist. Sizing up might work, but it might also be that that brand cuts for people with different proportions to yours.
It was literally directly, freshly, off the hangar from the tailor's. So i guess nothing will fit properly.