I think the problem is definitely in the jacket, not the trousers. The jacket, while sitting well on your chest and shoulders, is simply too short for you - in the sleeves, button stance, and in its overall length. This is what's making your hips look wide. The eye is drawn down to the base of the jacket, where BOOM - presenting: Hips!
Apparently all comments about family are off-limits, otherwise I would be paying you a very big compliment regarding your lady.
Thanks for the advice and compliment.
Your hips don't appear to be very wide in these pictures. What do you weigh? Buck-thirty-five, buck-forty? Don't be ridiculous.
Back in reality, the jacket is too short by classic standards. Don't buy more like that, but this one looks fine for what it is. Your collar looks to be standing up just fine, but the front of the shirt is collapsing. Try buttoning another button. Push the hank down into the pocket farther and it will be fine.
Close, I weigh 148 lbs. I wont be buying anymore short jackets but for now I will have to work with what Ive got. I will probably start purchasing from Kent Wang MTO so I can get a slim fit with the proper length.