I don't think that's fair. Some people don't have a lot of tact, but no one is telling you to get out. I will tell you my outlook on this place. I try to take the advise of people in here and find a tasteful way to apply it to the colors, textures, and designs that I already like. I frequently make mistakes, but I do try to take all the advise given to heart. Some of it will help me, some will not. It's like art. Some members are Picassos, others are still drawing stick figures. But just because everyone has their own ideas of what makes good art doesn't mean that someone drawing stick figures has a right to call himself as good as Picasso.