Originally Posted by jarude
A key that opens many locks is a damn fine key. A lock that gets opened by many keys is a shitty fucking lock.
A match that lights many candles is a good match. A candle lit by many matches is a good candle. It's sex dude. Beyond a trite phrase what the hell is wrong with everyone getting laid?
I think a big reason why girls sleeping with a number of men, is a big deal as opposed to men sleeping around is that, first of all it's a lot more difficult for a guy to get laid,
So we have jealousy.
that and the fact that pretty much the only reason guys seek out casual sex is pure pleasure.
Guys wouldn't be lying about the number of people they'd boned if sex came down to pleasure only. Why are dudes so quick to say they aren't virgins (sans Neo)? Also, are you really telling me that sex with a condom with a chick that you don't know is going to involve that much pleasure? Maybe the chicks are better lays where you go to school, but well established (but not yet declining) relationship sex is about as good as it gets with the exception of a few awesome hookup experiences IME.
For a woman, first of all it's a lot easier to get laid, even if you're not SO attractive,
Look at the chick you're boning. You honestly think that she's doing you because she can't get a better looking guy? You're hitting some fine meat, and no hate bro, but you aren't quite model material (I'm not saying I am FTR). Attractiveness doesn't mean that much as a dude as long as you pass the binary yes/no. Girls go way below their league all the time.
that and the fact that I feel like woman will sleep with someone due to self esteem issues, blah, blah, not always for pleasure.
See my point above about virginity. Many dudes have their self esteem tied to getting frequently laid. Everyone wants to feel desirable.