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post #31 of 198
3/13/11 at 9:27pm
The OP is feeling guilty, but why, if nothing happened. He either knows that he should not have shared his bed with her or there is more to the story that he isn't telling. I think there is more to it. I think they had sex, maybe not intercourse, but I think sexual activities took place.
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post #32 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:30pm
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The OP is feeling guilty, but why, if nothing happened. He either knows that he should not have shared his bed with her or there is more to the story that he isn't telling. I think there is more to it. I think they had sex, maybe not intercourse, but I think sexual activities took place.

no sexual activities took place. obviously there was some flirting going on but no physical touching at all. i know it's not terrible what i did but it's still a violation of relationship terms, IMO. she's one of the most innocent girls i've ever met and i think she deserves to know when she's been wronged regardless of how bad it is. you may call me a pussy, but a real man admits his faults, no?
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post #33 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:31pm
no
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post #34 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:34pm
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no sexual activities took place. obviously there was some flirting going on but no physical touching at all. i know it's not terrible what i did but it's still a violation of relationship terms, IMO. she's one of the most innocent girls i've ever met and i think she deserves to know when she's been wronged regardless of how bad it is. you may call me a pussy, but a real man admits his faults, no?

You've already decided what you're going to do, despite input by men that are more experienced and/or older than you. Just stop your whining and go do it. Then post here how correct we all were when she goes batshit on you.
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post #35 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:38pm
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Good advice from a guy whose longest relationship lasted about 4 hours.
More like 4 weeks! Yeah!!!
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post #36 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:40pm
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You've already decided what you're going to do, despite input by men that are more experienced and/or older than you. Just stop your whining and go do it. Then post here how correct we all were when she goes batshit on you.
Typical SF advice threads-- regarding any topic OP: Hey guys. I X. Any thoughts? SF Chorus: X is stupid. You should Y. Or do nothing at all. OP: Tells us how we're all so wrong. "no guys, seriously. I X. It will be fine." SF Chorus: Days later OP: Well, I guess X was kind of stupid. I still think I should have X'd. You were all still wrong, and this is why X is still the best option. SF Chorus: ^ Repeat ad nauseum.
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post #37 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:41pm
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Originally Posted by kjamesuvic View Post
no sexual activities took place. obviously there was some flirting going on but no physical touching at all. i know it's not terrible what i did but it's still a violation of relationship terms, IMO. she's one of the most innocent girls i've ever met and i think she deserves to know when she's been wronged regardless of how bad it is. you may call me a pussy, but a real man admits his faults, no?
Let us know how that conversation with the gf works out.
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post #38 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:45pm
It would be stupid to tell her, and if you are going to tell her, you might as well fuck girl #2 because your GF is never going to believe she just slept in your bed and nothing happened.
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post #39 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:50pm
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It would be stupid to tell her, and if you are going to tell her, you might as well fuck girl #2 because your GF is never going to believe she just slept in your bed and nothing happened.

+1.
"honey...nothing happened after going to the bar, flirting and bringing a girl home and had her spend the night in my bed."
"i believe you. thanks for being honest cause that's what real men do!"
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post #40 of 198
3/13/11 at 10:53pm
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+1.
"honey...nothing happened after going to the bar, flirting and bringing a girl home and had her spend the night in my bed."
"i believe you. thanks for being honest cause that's what real men do!"

Don't forget to tell her how she got naked with you in the room and how you said you'd really like to splooge her. That will really drive home the point that nothing happened.
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post #41 of 198
3/13/11 at 11:01pm
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Don't forget to tell her how she got naked with you in the room and how you said you'd really like to splooge her. That will really drive home the point that nothing happened.
Yeah, OP, if you're being completely honest with the gf, then you can't leave out any details, not a single one. Gf will be so proud of you, and you two will live happily ever after.
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post #42 of 198
3/13/11 at 11:02pm
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It would be stupid to tell her, and if you are going to tell her, you might as well fuck girl #2 because your GF is never going to believe she just slept in your bed and nothing happened.

i've never really lied to her about anything before, and i honestly think she will believe me.

anyone reading cheat on their spouse and remained together? i'd like to hear stories of both keeping it hidden and letting it out...
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post #43 of 198
3/13/11 at 11:05pm
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Originally Posted by kjamesuvic View Post
i've never really lied to her about anything before, and i honestly think she will believe me. anyone reading cheat on their spouse and remained together? i'd like to hear stories of both keeping it hidden and letting it out...
Dude, you didn't cheat on her... you didn't even do anything wrong. Why make a problem where there isn't one?
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post #44 of 198
3/13/11 at 11:07pm
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Dude, you didn't cheat on her... you didn't even do anything wrong. Why make a problem where there isn't one?

No, what he did was wrong. Going out, flirting, buying drinks, convincing girl to come back to his place, etc was wrong, whether he did it to "be a good wingman" or not. It's not something you do when you're in a relationship.
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post #45 of 198
3/13/11 at 11:11pm
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
No, what he did was wrong. Going out, flirting, buying drinks, convincing girl to come back to his place, etc was wrong, whether he did it to "be a good wingman" or not. It's not something you do when you're in a relationship.
I was just under the impression that if he truly cared about his girlfriend, who he claims to plan on marrying, he wouldn't consider doing anything promiscuous in the first place. Going out for drinks with a roommate and a few girls is pretty innocent, as long as you don't intend on making it more than that. If, in fact, sleeping with her was his intention, he obviously needs to reassess his feelings about his girlfriend.
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