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Spending the Night with another Girl while your in a Relationship?

post #1 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:20pm
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I went out last night with my roommate and we met a couple girls at the bar. Drinks ensued and I was the wingman. When we got back to my place he went straight into his room with girl #1 leaving me with girl #2. Seeing as I wasn't about to call a cab for girl #2 and leave her friend (girl #1) at my place with my roommate, I decided to let girl #2 stay over... in my bed. I've been in a serious relationship with another girl (who is currently doing a four month internship in another city) for over two years now, and I just might marry her down the road. She is not girl #1 nor girl #2. Is it really bad to spend the night with another girl even though I didn't touch her or make any sexual advances towards her? And how should I approach telling my girlfriend about it?
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post #2 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:22pm
don't tell the gf. done. not that difficult.
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post #3 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:25pm
^^Yup It's not that big of a deal if you really didn't do anything, but your gf probably will not like it. Don't make a habbit out of it. You don't have a couch #2 could have slept on?
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post #4 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:25pm
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Originally Posted by kjamesuvic View Post
I went out last night with my roommate and we met a couple girls at the bar. Drinks ensued and I was the wingman. When we got back to my place he went straight into his room with girl #1 leaving me with girl #2. Seeing as I wasn't about to call a cab for girl #2 and leave her friend (girl #1) at my place with my roommate, I decided to let girl #2 stay over... in my bed.

I've been in a serious relationship with another girl (who is currently doing a four month internship in another city) for over two years now, and I just might marry her down the road. She is not girl #1 nor girl #2. Is it really bad to spend the night with another girl even though I didn't touch her or make any sexual advances towards her? And how should I approach telling my girlfriend about it?

nothing to worry about.. you behaved right?
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post #5 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:32pm
Why didn't you just sleep on the couch, or have #2 sleep on the couch?
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post #6 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:46pm
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Originally Posted by ter1413 View Post
don't tell the gf. done. not that difficult.

I want to be honest hear. As I said I am likely going to marry her down the road a ways and I think not telling her could backfire later. Catch my drift?

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^^Yup

It's not that big of a deal if you really didn't do anything, but your gf probably will not like it. Don't make a habbit out of it. You don't have a couch #2 could have slept on?

I have a pillow top mattress and nice sheets. It's a bad excuse but I love my bed, and my couch really isn't that big.

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nothing to worry about.. you behaved right?

Yes. No touching whatsoever. I did, though, give her a pair of my ginch which she then, right behind me, stripped naked to put them on. I wouldn't say we did some harmless flirting as this is a direct quote I said to her: "I really want to have sex with you right now, but I'm not going to." Yeah I kinda just let things out sometimes. Good thing it wasn't my member.

Temptation is a real mother.
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post #7 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:48pm
being honest will start something. dont tell the gf dude...dont be a pussy...
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post #8 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:50pm
Shoulda made her sleep on the couch. Kind of a dumb move. Who cares if some random chick is upset that she has to sleep on your couch?
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post #9 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:50pm
Based on this:

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Originally Posted by kjamesuvic View Post
I have a pillow top mattress and nice sheets. It's a bad excuse but I love my bed, and my couch really isn't that big.

Reconsider this:

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As I said I am likely going to marry her down the road a ways
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post #10 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:52pm
i'm not sure you want to settle down quite yet
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post #11 of 198
3/13/11 at 5:57pm
Not a big deal, but don't put yourself in that position again. Would not tell the GF. She won't believe you.
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post #12 of 198
3/13/11 at 6:21pm
Still dont get why you didn't make the girl sleep on the couch if you love your bed so much. There's no reason to have another female share your bed if you're in a committed relationship.
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post #13 of 198
3/13/11 at 6:22pm
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Still dont get why you didn't make the girl sleep on the couch if you love your bed so much. There's no reason to have another female share your bed if you're in a committed relationship.

+1. It's not really bad, it was just stupid.
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post #14 of 198
3/13/11 at 6:28pm
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+1. It's not really bad, it was just stupid.

It was mostly me being drunk and just wanting to sleep and letting her do whatever she wanted.
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post #15 of 198
3/13/11 at 6:29pm
dude. shit happens...but DON'T tell the gf...
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