Girl Issues, Need Advice vol. infinity - Page 6

too late for that, she's gone. planned dates are lame anyway - a big hassle. spontaneous is better, which means seizing the moment which OP FAILED to do big time.

best thing for OP is loosen up a bit around girls, be more cheeky on chicks you're not even interested in, and that will put in you the right frame for the ones you do like. it's the CLICK.

Had a few during and after high school...have since severed contact as it no longer made sense for me to be involved in such relationships.

had one after college (mid 90s).. strictly platonic and we'd talk regularly and she'd confide about her bf and I'd confide about my gf and all that, and sometimes we'd go out (with other friends) and we'd end up doing stuff thats more to her liking than mine... and yes that was a complete waste of my time

I don't get this, at all. Some of my closest friends are female, a couple I have been sexually involved with in the past, most of them I haven't. A couple of them in all honesty I would kind of like to sexor in the right situation, quite a few of them I wouldn't, but the friendship with all of them is platonic. I talk to them and hang out with them like I would any male friend. Do you really have no female friends?

I've got several close, platonic female friendships

You aren't getting laid.

Nah, dude's getting a foursome, for sure.

Don't get your hopes up too high. It's much more likely that she has friends in town and they want to go to a party and yours is the one that she knew about.

All that needs to happen now is she gets a good dickin' from some other dude at the party, then you drive her home.

eventually those women get married and then it becomes awkward.

This.

I bet those "friends" are two other dudes.

when i was 21, i was dating/seeing a 24 year old. i took her to a club one night, she only had like 2 drinks but got alcohol poisoning or some shit, i had to pull oover the car like 2 times so she could throw up. she was shit faced. she was a bartender to make matters worse, i don't think she was drunk. Anywa, she gets home to my place, she is shivering. I put her under my blanket and I go sleep on the couch. we have had plenty of sex by this point but still.. she's fucking shivering.
she wakes up the next morning and says, I BS you not "why didn't you try to have sex with me last night"

I never called her back again.


to the OP you aren't going to get laid. You going "out" is not the end game, the end game is you in her, and that's' not going to happen. however, she knows that's what you want, and she knows you are too stupid to not leave and will milk that shit for all it's worth. prepare for months of almost, fake make out sessions, and unfilled innuendos before you filly get the hint. she is not attracted to you like that. if she was, she wouldnt have slept tin the same bed with you and not had sex with you.

Sex isn't the end game, bro.

If the girl's bringing backup, you better have a competent wingman to take down those bogeys.

However, as the squad leader yourself, your lack of experience leads me to think you might have surrounded yourself with kamikaze wingmen.