Originally Posted by makker
Actually, even better now. Since I'm taking her to a private party, I asked if I could bring more guests but since the guestlist had closed, I'm limited to one person, which will be her. No lady friends to screw things up, just me and her. I totally agree on some of the stuff said here, but tell me guys if you go from 'hello' to penetration with a work colleague or other classmate of yours at the same speed as for some random chick you find attractive at some bar, etc.
Classmates can be quick if you want to be a dick about it. Some girls are better candidates for it than others, but a freshman in a long distance, long term relationship that's about 2 months in to college is fucking gold. Be funny but confident in class, get her number, arrange for a time to study when there's nothing pressing going on. If you can get conversation flowing while being as much of a dick as you can without actually running her off, then you're pretty much spot. Ease in to flirting while remaining the same asshole. If you get a bit of booze in the two of yall, throw in a movie somewhere dark and secluded, and act just a touch nicer, she'll think that you're letting your walls down and open up to you. Don't get too sweet. You're supposed to be filling in the fun while her boyfriend covers her emotionally. You lose your interest if you don't provide what he isn't. The acting a little nicer is just to get her loosen up. You should be fucking before the movie is over. If you want to, you can even make a relationship out of it. Just remember how you got her when it blows up in your face later down the road. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, it'll take a little longer, but should still work. The key is generating the sense of security while not turning yourself in to the gay friend. If you're not worried about seeing the girl ever again, you could probably expedite it by having friends talk up just how much of an asshole you are without crossing her lines. If you do keep her around, she'll eventually call you on your shit, and it may get embarrassing. Taking a girl to a party is an awful way to get laid. You're lowering her inhibitions and introducing her to a bunch of guys. Keep in mind that several of these guys are bound to be more attractive, more interesting, and not a sure thing like you are. If she gets shut down by them, she can fall back on you. Next best alternative isn't a bad position to have, but it's not dating either.