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post #121 of 347
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Originally Posted by makker View Post
Hahaha, all you losers. Told her to come with me to the party yesterday and of course her reaction was something along the lines of "what? " but she never declined, and I knew she wouldnt. She just sent me a text telling me she wants to go and bring 2 of her friends along. Tomorrow night is going to be big.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=syzQX...el_video_title
post #122 of 347
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Originally Posted by mm84321 View Post
From my experience, having girls as friends is a finite experience. Ultimately, there will come a day when you will no longer wish to be part of such platonic relationships, as they are seemingly useless. I believe this to be the male's penile instincts at work.
post #123 of 347
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Originally Posted by christinedaae View Post
I don't have much
time but I have to respond to this

look, if you think women and men can be true platonic friends, just go ahead and put a bullett in your head right now beucase you are fucking worthless. they cna't.. well me me rephrase that. they can, under the assumption that the issue of sex has been addressed.


I have what I call a female friend test. what is that you might ask, well i will tell you. if my "friend" waslked into my bathroom, and came out startch naked,and said "i want you, i have always wanted you and I ant to have butt naked sex all night long with you now" would I say "okay babe go put your clothes on because I value your friendship too much". Because that's exactly what a friend would do. more times than not, you are attracted to her, but she isn't attracted to you or visa versa, and in that situation, there cannot be a real friendship.l you might have out, you might do shit together, byut you aren't friends, becuase if you like her, you can't give her objective advice, and if she likes you she can't give you objective advice. I speak from 100% experience, i had a "friend" that I tried for years to convince myself i could be her friend, and every once and a while the real me would come out and try to screw her lol. we did this for almost 10 years. Every peice of advice I gave her in hindsight, was a chess move. YOu think that "friend" of yours if you turned her down is going to give you great fyuckign advice on women lol? think again buddy.


Then to make matters worse, if you happened to have 1, it becomes a habit of not being aggressive. if I'm talking to a woman damnit i want the poon and that's that, and I don't eel the least bit bad about being honest about it. time you can be spent with that friend you could be out finding women, that actually want to have sex with you. Its' just not efficent at all. But the media and weak punk guys try and women try to tell you otherwise, women dont' want to give up the free ride. I've had female friends, when I was in AA, when I just would not allow myself to go down that route regardless and fuck even that didn't work out, i brought my GF around to a meeting one day and one of my "best friends" gave me the 'where is our relationship going" talk and I thought this was my ace boon coon (She was pretty cute too, if she wasn't in AA with me, i'd had dated her)

women. and men. cannot be friends if one is attracted to the other. Why the hell even play with yourself like that I have no idea.

You don't want to fucking hear about how great her BF is, you want to hit it. She doesn't want to hear about how good a time me and my girl had late night, she wants to be that girl.
post #124 of 347
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Actually, even better now. Since I'm taking her to a private party, I asked if I could bring more guests but since the guestlist had closed, I'm limited to one person, which will be her. No lady friends to screw things up, just me and her. I totally agree on some of the stuff said here, but tell me guys if you go from 'hello' to penetration with a work colleague or other classmate of yours at the same speed as for some random chick you find attractive at some bar, etc.
post #125 of 347
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Originally Posted by makker View Post
I totally agree on some of the stuff said here, but tell me guys if you go from 'hello' to penetration with a work colleague or other classmate of yours at the same speed as for some random chick you find attractive at some bar, etc.

I get chicks into bed before I even really meet them. It sounds funny, but it's just the way I am. I know this after sleeping with 100 women and amassing great experience with them.
post #126 of 347
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
I get chicks into bed before I even really meet them. It sounds funny, but it's just the way I am. I know this after sleeping with 100 women and amassing great experience with them.
Yep. And considering how many women kwilk hasn't really met, he's actually amassing experience with millions of more women at this very moment. He's a legend, I tell you.
post #127 of 347
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Originally Posted by makker View Post
Actually, even better now. Since I'm taking her to a private party, I asked if I could bring more guests but since the guestlist had closed, I'm limited to one person, which will be her. No lady friends to screw things up, just me and her. I totally agree on some of the stuff said here, but tell me guys if you go from 'hello' to penetration with a work colleague or other classmate of yours at the same speed as for some random chick you find attractive at some bar, etc.
Classmates can be quick if you want to be a dick about it. Some girls are better candidates for it than others, but a freshman in a long distance, long term relationship that's about 2 months in to college is fucking gold. Be funny but confident in class, get her number, arrange for a time to study when there's nothing pressing going on. If you can get conversation flowing while being as much of a dick as you can without actually running her off, then you're pretty much spot. Ease in to flirting while remaining the same asshole. If you get a bit of booze in the two of yall, throw in a movie somewhere dark and secluded, and act just a touch nicer, she'll think that you're letting your walls down and open up to you. Don't get too sweet. You're supposed to be filling in the fun while her boyfriend covers her emotionally. You lose your interest if you don't provide what he isn't. The acting a little nicer is just to get her loosen up. You should be fucking before the movie is over. If you want to, you can even make a relationship out of it. Just remember how you got her when it blows up in your face later down the road. If she doesn't have a boyfriend, it'll take a little longer, but should still work. The key is generating the sense of security while not turning yourself in to the gay friend. If you're not worried about seeing the girl ever again, you could probably expedite it by having friends talk up just how much of an asshole you are without crossing her lines. If you do keep her around, she'll eventually call you on your shit, and it may get embarrassing. Taking a girl to a party is an awful way to get laid. You're lowering her inhibitions and introducing her to a bunch of guys. Keep in mind that several of these guys are bound to be more attractive, more interesting, and not a sure thing like you are. If she gets shut down by them, she can fall back on you. Next best alternative isn't a bad position to have, but it's not dating either.
post #128 of 347
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Originally Posted by makker View Post
Actually, even better now. Since I'm taking her to a private party, I asked if I could bring more guests but since the guestlist had closed, I'm limited to one person, which will be her. No lady friends to screw things up, just me and her.

I totally agree on some of the stuff said here, but tell me guys if you go from 'hello' to penetration with a work colleague or other classmate of yours at the same speed as for some random chick you find attractive at some bar, etc.

I don't dip my pen in the company ink, I don't care how expensive the ink is. It's not worth the hassle and i have options
post #129 of 347
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
I get chicks into bed before I even really meet them. It sounds funny, but it's just the way I am. I know this after sleeping with 100 women and amassing great experience with them.
your passive aggressiveness is quite cute. Look, I could give 2 shits about my "e cred". As you can see I don't post here all that much by my post count. I come here like everyone else, to get my game together when it comes to clothes. Everyone brings something different to the table, some people are good with money, some are good with food like that dude in the food thread with all the pictures that make me hungry, I'm good with women, so when it comes to women and I see something I can offer advice to I do. you can either read it or you can ignore it, it's no skin off my back either way. But if you saw someone wearing a suit that was 2 sizes too big and they asked you how they look, you are going to tell them the truth, that's no different then what I did. Lol, I'm going to sleep fine rather you get that suit tailored or not, my "cred" is no more ruined if you think the suit is too big or it actually fits, your opinion of my advice, has no weighting on my actual ability to dress. But you can't say someone didn't tell you it was too big. That's how I feel. And like the g uy in the suit analogy, I know i'm right at the end of the day, I don't have to convince anyone that your suit is too big lol, dude the suit is too big, rather you want to acknowledge it or not is not up to me.
post #130 of 347
Where's the update?
post #131 of 347
This is fucking ridiculous. If there's no point to having female friends if you're not going to fuck them, then why have male friends either? Just to help you with your game? Does this mean you should only hang out with guys when you need a wingman? Does this also mean that a gay guy can't have a platonic male friend? Or that you shouldn't bother having older friends, younger friends, married friends? What a stupid line of thinking. I have plenty of good female friends. Some I've fucked and we decided to stick with being friends. One tries to fuck me every time she gets drunk and I have to shut her down. Two would fuck me if I went for it, but we'd both regret changing the friendship. I'm also close enough with two of my male friends' women to hang out with them alone. Why would anyone choose not to be friends with someone just because they have different parts between their legs? On an unrelated note, I am excited for the OP's next post after the party tonight.
post #132 of 347
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Originally Posted by christinedaae View Post
to the OP you aren't going to get laid. You going "out" is not the end game, the end game is you in her, and that's' not going to happen. however, she knows that's what you want, and she knows you are too stupid to not leave and will milk that shit for all it's worth. prepare for months of almost, fake make out sessions, and unfilled innuendos before you filly get the hint. she is not attracted to you like that. if she was, she wouldnt have slept tin the same bed with you and not had sex with you.

+1.

To the OP: crass as it may sound, christinedaae just saved you lots of time, money, stress and possibly heartache with this statement.
post #133 of 347
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Originally Posted by mm84321 View Post
From my experience, having girls as friends is a finite experience. Ultimately, there will come a day when you will no longer wish to be part of such platonic relationships, as they are seemingly useless. I believe this to be the male's penile instincts at work.

+1. Whether it is evolutionary, social programming or both, there comes a time in every male's life when drama without sex becomes a liability. It is at this point that he matures from a boy into a man.

Look around you. Do men like George Clooney have a circle of female friends? No people like him have a wide circle of female admirers. Big difference.
post #134 of 347
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Originally Posted by mkarim View Post
+1. Whether it is evolutionary, social programming or both, there comes a time in every male's life when drama without sex becomes a liability. It is at this point that he matures from a boy into a man.

Interestingly enough, studies of baboons have shown that those with more platonic, female friendships are better at handling stressors and have lower resting levels of glucocorticoids (stress hormone) than those without. There certainly may be some advantages to being able to have a female friend as a sort of support system, but alas, we are not baboons.
post #135 of 347
I'm posting in here for future reference.
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