Originally Posted by mm84321
From my experience, having girls as friends is a finite experience. Ultimately, there will come a day when you will no longer wish to be part of such platonic relationships, as they are seemingly useless. I believe this to be the male's penile instincts at work.
I don't have much
time but I have to respond to this
look, if you think women and men can be true platonic friends, just go ahead and put a bullett in your head right now beucase you are fucking worthless. they cna't.. well me me rephrase that. they can, under the assumption that the issue of sex has been addressed.
I have what I call a female friend test. what is that you might ask, well i will tell you. if my "friend" waslked into my bathroom, and came out startch naked,and said "i want you, i have always wanted you and I ant to have butt naked sex all night long with you now" would I say "okay babe go put your clothes on because I value your friendship too much". Because that's exactly what a friend would do. more times than not, you are attracted to her, but she isn't attracted to you or visa versa, and in that situation, there cannot be a real friendship.l you might have out, you might do shit together, byut you aren't friends, becuase if you like her, you can't give her objective advice, and if she likes you she can't give you objective advice. I speak from 100% experience, i had a "friend" that I tried for years to convince myself i could be her friend, and every once and a while the real me would come out and try to screw her lol. we did this for almost 10 years. Every peice of advice I gave her in hindsight, was a chess move. YOu think that "friend" of yours if you turned her down is going to give you great fyuckign advice on women lol? think again buddy.
Then to make matters worse, if you happened to have 1, it becomes a habit of not being aggressive. if I'm talking to a woman damnit i want the poon and that's that, and I don't eel the least bit bad about being honest about it. time you can be spent with that friend you could be out finding women, that actually want to have sex with you. Its' just not efficent at all. But the media and weak punk guys try and women try to tell you otherwise, women dont' want to give up the free ride. I've had female friends, when I was in AA, when I just would not allow myself to go down that route regardless and fuck even that didn't work out, i brought my GF around to a meeting one day and one of my "best friends" gave me the 'where is our relationship going" talk and I thought this was my ace boon coon (She was pretty cute too, if she wasn't in AA with me, i'd had dated her)
women. and men. cannot be friends if one is attracted to the other. Why the hell even play with yourself like that I have no idea.
You don't want to fucking hear about how great her BF is, you want to hit it. She doesn't want to hear about how good a time me and my girl had late night, she wants to be that girl.