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post #46 of 58
3/8/11 at 7:07pm
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you need to take your friend out, 1 on 1, split a bottle of wine, and just confess your passion.

maybe if they were little girls. 1 each and maybe then things will get started.
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post #47 of 58
3/8/11 at 7:22pm
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maybe if they were little girls. 1 each and maybe then things will get started.

the op is a little girl at heart. look at how he describes his friend.
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post #48 of 58
3/8/11 at 7:28pm
nothing you can do man. I went through this same thing as well. My good friend started dating a girl, all of a sudden you dont hear from him anymore. gave up everything....NEVER came out for a beer. Then, he gets dumped, gets sorely depressed, and finally starts to come out again, THEN, gets back together, and hasnt been out without her since.

Its great to have a girlfriend...no question. But when you are so whipped you give up all of your friends theres something wrong.

Just accept that youll probably start hanging out again when she leaves him.
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post #49 of 58
3/8/11 at 7:41pm
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the op is a little girl at heart. look at how he describes his friend.

touche.
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post #50 of 58
3/8/11 at 7:49pm
Get a girlfriend.
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post #51 of 58
3/8/11 at 8:24pm
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maybe if they were little girls. 1 each and maybe then things will get started.

Aren't more and more guys becoming "little girls" nowadays (and I DON'T mean sex changes)!
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post #52 of 58
3/8/11 at 8:53pm
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Its great to have a girlfriend...no question. But when you are so whipped you give up all of your friends theres something wrong.

+100.

Don't believe popular media (TV shows, relationship magazines, etc) that tell you women want men to be "in touch with their feelings" and "be their best friend" etc. Nothing could be further from the truth. That's just what makes them money.
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post #53 of 58
3/8/11 at 9:01pm
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Don't believe popular media (TV shows, relationship magazines, etc) that tell you women want men to be "in touch with their feelings" and "be their best friend" etc. Nothing could be further from the truth.

This is not true IME.
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post #54 of 58
3/8/11 at 9:03pm
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the op is a little girl at heart. look at how he describes his friend.

maybe im just a good, thoughtful friend?

i dont understand the need to resort to ad hominem attacks for something like this.

pathetic.
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post #55 of 58
3/8/11 at 9:28pm
your friend is your friend, tell him once about your opinions and concerns and let it be. he'll make his own decisions. if it doesnt work for the best for both of you, well, then you move on.

that's life. move on. shake your feet when you leave. enter a new period in life. meet another friend. keep in contact with old friend. or maybe not.

also you may not really know all the facts and circumstances surrounding their relationship/situation so maybe youre judgments of 'pussy-whipped' is not really valid here. even if you may think so. and most likely you are right. but you never know.
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post #56 of 58
3/8/11 at 9:51pm
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maybe im just a good, thoughtful friend?

i dont understand the need to resort to ad hominem attacks for something like this.

pathetic.

i posted a legit reply with good advice. i think the tone of your OP is fucking nutso though, and your weird borderline stalkerish description of your friend/involvement in his 'career' is just strange.

bottom line: ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. IF YOU MEDDLE, YOU WILL LOSE YOUR FRIEND.
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post #57 of 58
3/8/11 at 9:59pm
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i posted a legit reply with good advice. i think the tone of your OP is fucking nutso though, and your weird borderline stalkerish description of your friend/involvement in his 'career' is just strange.

bottom line: ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. IF YOU MEDDLE, YOU WILL LOSE YOUR FRIEND.

Weird and borderline stalkerish of my friend's career? All I mentioned is that I'm worried because there are only two months left till graduation and I know he hasn't received a single interview yet. That plus the ONE job posting that I told him about is the extent of my 'stalking' of his career.

That being said, I apologize. I didn't see the legit reply you posted. All I saw were the ones where you said I should take him out to wine or some stupid shit like that, so it obviously irked me.
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post #58 of 58
3/9/11 at 2:49pm
Teger is right though. It's okay to worry about your friend but lay the fuck off and let him do his thing - mistakes or not - particularly if you've voiced your opinion before.
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