The bride has been very out of the weeds thankfully, but has asked that the color gold be incorporated somehow into our outfits. My thought with the charcoal 3 piece and this tie would be some kind of mixed color (paisley maybe?) navy blue/gold/something pocketsquare that brings out the color of the tie without being obvious. Any recommendations/ideas?
1) Stick with a white linen pocket square and white shirts for the guys. It will look best. Especially in photos for years to come.
2) In spite of the brides request, the colors you have chosen, charcoal and lavender, silver really works best. There is no changing that.
3) don't add a gold pocket square