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Originally Posted by christinedaae View Post
mother of god someone gets it.

it's nbot them, it's us. My dad saw how pathetic I was when it came to women, good looking kid, but I just didn't have a clue, and basically had to let me move in with him and take me to school or 2 years, when i was 16 and could drive. my mom, who, basic ally raised me herself, i lived with her, did a piss poor job of explaining the difference between men and women. she actually would tell me women hate men like my dad. I never put 2 and 2 together and noticed that my dad had a different woman every day of the week lol. I actually believed my mom. The problem is, alot of people dont' have my dad.

I believe honestly, it stems with the rise in divorce rates. Divorces, kids get to stay with mommy. when you live with mommy and not daddy, you get fed a shitload of dribble and false crap, men hating crap, and she tells you what women want in a man, but the thing is, it's not really what women want lol, it's what she thinks women wants or better stated, what women should want, it's not actually what a woman wants. Mothers tell you how to get married. They don't tell you how to get laid. My dad sums it up in one sustenance.. a woman wants a damn man. Sounds simple. Be a freaking man. not a friend. Not a BFF, not a sugardaddy, not a john, just a man, and all that comes with it.

The problem is, we stopped raising men a long time ago. Men don't know how to be men anymore. Men don't understands how ot be patient, how to build a life, how to take responsibility, how to dress, how to communicate, how to stand up for yourself, how to defend yourself, how to do anything right anymore. A man never makes a woman, unless you are married, the centerpiece of his life. eVER. yet that's all most men do. They wear clothes they think women like, they drive cars they think women like, they have har styles they think women like, they say thing they think women want to hear, they go places because they think that's where women are, they do everything based off the pursuit of poon. Most "men" have absolutely no sense of individualism, what woman is going to go crazyu over a guy who is just doing everything he thinks she wants him to do. There is nothing sexy about that.

I remember about 2 years ago there was this girl I went to the movies with, first date. She was pretty cute, long story short, we get to the movies, she gets on the phone in the movie. Without even thinking about it I pull out 40 dollars, and tell her to catch a cab home, and went to the gym. I was already pissed I missed my gym time to go on the date anyway, that just was the icing on the cake. I had like 40 missed calls. I told a few friends this, they got on me for being so mean and inconsiderate. That girl came to my house the next day and we didn't leave my bedroom for about 2 days. She said she had neve had a man stand up to her (Admitted) crap like that and she found it sexy. and had she not come over, I wasn't going to call, and i damn near didn't let her in. Actually after that sex marathon I didn't call her back, I had moved on. The sex was good though. Have a freking spine, is what it all comes down to. Dont' be afraid to take the ball and go home, dont' be afraid to tell a woman this is what is going to happen, this is what we are going to do and if you don't like it, you can get in the goonie goo goo mobile and go.

Amen to that!